Let’s Talk About Why This Matters
You know that feeling when you’re doing all the things, checking all the boxes, but still feeling stuck? Like you’re going through the motions, but not really sure where it’s all heading?
That stuck feeling doesn’t mean you’re doing it wrong. It usually means you’re just not clear.
Motivation doesn’t disappear because you’re not ambitious enough. It fades when you’re not sure what you’re working toward – or why it even matters.
That’s why clarity is such a big deal. It reconnects you to what’s important, helps you make better choices, and gives you the momentum to keep going – even if the road ahead isn’t fully mapped out yet.
So What Do I Mean by “Clarity”?
Let’s be real. When I say “clarity,” I don’t mean having a color-coded life plan with every detail figured out. I mean getting honest about a few simple things:
- What actually matters to you right now
- What kind of difference you want to make
- And how you decide what’s worth your time and energy
Clarity doesn’t mean certainty. It just means direction. And when you have that? You stop chasing everything – and start focusing on what moves the needle.
This is especially important if you’re in a leadership role or stepping into something new. Because if you’re unclear, the weight of responsibility only feels heavier. But when you’re grounded in what matters? You lead yourself – and others – with a whole lot more confidence.
How to Get Clear When You’re In the Fog
If you’re sitting in that space of “I don’t know what to do next,” here are a few steps that have helped me (and others I work with) find some breathing room and a way forward.
- Pause and reflect
Make space to think – without multitasking. Ask yourself:
- What do I want my work or life to look like in a year or two?
- What values are guiding my choices right now?
- What part of my work actually lights me up?
- Talk it out
Sometimes we’re too close to see things clearly. Reach out to a mentor, coach, or trusted friend. Let them reflect back what they see in you. That perspective can be gold. - Pick one thing
Trying to do everything at once is a recipe for burnout. Ask yourself: What’s one thing I can focus on right now that will make the biggest difference? Then do just that. - Take a small, clear step
You don’t need a grand plan. Just one intentional move that points in the right direction. Action creates clarity more than overthinking ever will.
Your Next Clear Move (Do This in the Next 48 Hours)
Don’t wait for motivation to show up. Create the conditions for it by taking action. Try this:
🟢 Jot down your top three priorities right now – what really matters to you in your work or leadership
🟢 Reach out to someone who can offer support or perspective
🟢 Take one step. It doesn’t have to be perfect – just make sure it’s intentional
The clearer you are, the easier it is to stay motivated – even when the road ahead isn’t totally clear.
It’s not about having all the answers. It’s about asking the right questions and making your next clear move.
